You Have To Stay Away From Dysfunctional People
Dysfunctional people will ruin your life if you let them. Now you may be one of the fortunate people to be surrounded by fantastic friends and family and that is great. However it can be very easy to allow these toxic individuals to destroy the good that you have created.
The best way I can describe this to you is this. Take a fish bowl and fill it with fresh clean water. Drop a very minute amount of ink into the bowl and watch it change color. This is what happens when you tolerate negative people and allow them to infiltrate your world and poison it slowly. So slowly that you don’t even identify or recognize what is happening.
I don’t care if they have been your best or family friends since high school, you need to let them go rapidly. You need to be walking in the direction of peace not into a war. You need to be aiming at contentment and not conflict. It will normally start small and build up over time.
The trouble is that sometimes it is left too late to jettison these uncontrolled viruses, once they become entwined in your life. You must eliminate the daily drama of arguments and emotional situations as soon as possible.
You have to understand that your whole life, not only your business will suffer big time, if you don’t act swiftly. It is your choice which way you go, disaster or abundance, fighting or calmness. Its not really a decision but a lifestyle.
I know this sounds like doom and gloom, but it’s not really. I want to see you thrive and progress in whatever you do and you won’t grow if you are surrounded by garbage. Aim to spend your life smiling, having fun, laughing and being happy.
We all know that bad things can and will happen once in a while. If you have prepared yourself well, you can handle these things easily. If you have allowed these poisonous relationships to linger, then things can and will go down hill fast.
So let go of these dysfunctional people from your life, love them, but don’t spend any time around them because it will become like a cancer that spreads and eats you up and all the good you have created. A further note for network marketers. If these defective parasites remain in your group or team, they will eradicate and wipe out almost everyone over time, so beware.
Understand that you must become a ruthless assassin and act immediately to rid the organization of this venom. I don’t apologise for this as I have seen it happen on more than one occasion, where a failure to act has become costly.
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