Do You Accept The Past Without Regrets?
I think for me, that to “accept the past” without regrets was very a difficult thing for me to achieve, However it depends who you are and where you are coming from. We should keep this to working your home business and not open up that proverbial can of worms and talk about our relationships etc. Probably because I would be doing most of the talking. So network marketing it is then. If I was to add in my personal life errors it would read like Tolstoy’s War and Peace.
In life we all get it wrong occasionally, some more than others obviously, but should we “accept the past” and leave it there and well alone? I think so, what about you, do you make the same blunders?
It is so easy to drag the past mistakes back into the present, but the big problem is how we view times gone by and also how we actually perceive what happened previously. For long periods of time I could not shake off former errors, always blaming myself and living in the yesteryears of doom and gloom.
The problem was it affected my business performance, my emotional well being and business relationships. I just could not shake it off. In the end I just said to myself, “This has gone on long enough. I am not going to live like this any more.”Now I know that sounds a bit dramatic, but that is where I was a few years ago.
Now there was a lot of other things going on at that time, so that could have had an impact also, but I will never know thankfully. What I accept now is that I am okay with my past failures and there were many. I “accept the past” without any regrets
You Have To Learn To Handle Your Present With Confidence.
Most of my life I had thrived on confidence, because there was very little I couldn’t handle and deal with. But about five years ago my confidence took a massive dive for some unknown reason. I have my theories, but I am not sure anyone knows exactly why you drop into that dip.
In the end I made a crucial decision just to chill out in every way possible and just enjoy life. This had a profound effect on not only my life, but my business as well. Because I now know how to be cool and calm, when dealing with my business and life in general, once again. I now handle the present with amazing confidence and I know I will never go down that dark road again, whatever happens.
Face Your Future Without Fear
In fact I would say my confidence levels are extremely even and at the very highest levels they have ever reached before. I have never been a person who has feared much in my life, so I can continue to face the future without fear of any description whatsoever.
But the most important thing is that you can do the same thing, as long as you learn from past mistakes, but not be affected by them unduly. So what would be the best way forward for someone who has that ball and chain attached?
I wrote this article having been inspired by the photograph you can see above and I have to say I am absolutely buzzing about the future. We never know how long we have on this planet, so hopefully we all choose to enjoy as much of life as possible.
This can be achieved by spending a serious amount of time around top quality people, being guided by them and just letting their mindset, attitude, magnetic personality and self image rub off on you big time. Also make a commitment to completion and to become a true professional at what you do.
I know that this is much easier said than done but do your utmost to “accept the past” and move on into the rest of 2012 and 2013 with supreme confidence.
To Your Success